35 Practical Wedding Registry Ideas for Couples Who Live Together - Mostly Morgan (2024)

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When you’re planning your wedding, it’s custom to create a wedding registry. Many guests like to bring the couple gifts to celebrate their new beginnings, though it’s absolutely not required, and those guests are usually going to ask where you’re registered.

Garrett and I considered not creating a registry. By the time our wedding rolls around, we’ll have lived together for over two years and if I’m being honest, most of the time it feels like we have everything we need.

Ultimately we decided to create one based on advice from a friend who said: people are going to bring you gifts whether you register or not, and if you don’t register you might end up getting a lot of things you aren’t going to use, and we’d hate for people to spend money on something that won’t be utilized.

Once I started really thinking about it, I realized there was a lot that we could actually add to our registry. I still haven’t been able to hit Amazon’s recommended number of gifts, but I’m off to a good start, so I thought I could share some of my recommendations with you.

We are using Amazon for our registry. We really wanted a one stop shop just for our own sanity, and Amazon has a lot of great benefits that come with their wedding registries.

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Amazon Wedding Registry Benefits

  • If $500 worth of gifts are purchased from your Amazon Registry, they give you 20% off of everything else to buy yourself. (Hot tip: I’ve been bookmarking things to add to it a few days before the wedding (when everyone has already shopped) that aren’t necessarily registry gifts, I just want to get myself and save 20% on.)
  • Amazon has a gift advisor with popular gifts that you might not otherwise think to add to your registry. This has been a life saver for us!
  • Group gifting allows you to break pricier gifts up so multiple people can contribute. So if you’ve got your eye on a $200 vacuum, 5 of your friends can each contribute $40 to it.
  • A lot of the suggested items come with a free gift with purchase, and some of these gifts are bougie. I’m always a big fan of freebies, so this was very enticing to me.

If you want to create an Amazon Wedding Registry, you can get started here.

Wedding Registry Ideas

Things that need upgraded

The first items I added to our list were things that we have but might not be in the best shape. Both of us got a lot of hand me downs from family and friends when we moved out into our own apartments years ago, and that’s left us with a lot of mismatched pots and pans, rusted baking trays, iffy toasters, and the likes. Basically, here are just a few ideas of things that you might want to upgrade.

Home items that are a little “bougie”

The next things we added to the registry were items that we thinks are super cool, but can’t necessarily justify spending our limited budgets on. We’re in our twenties and paying off school, home, orthodontics, and car debt so splurges like these don’t make a ton of sense. But if we were to be gifted these items, you can bet your bottom dollar they’d get all the love and use they deserve.

Things that can help you organize your home

Garrett and I are first time home owners. We thought once we were in a home rather than an apartment, we’d be so neat and orderly with all of the extra space. One thing I quickly realized is that we need better systems to help keep things looking tidy and nice. For the most part, we’ve figured out the systems to help our household run smoothly. Here are a few items that we added to our wedding registry that could help us further.

Things for entertaining

Garrett and I are home bodies and love having people over for a fire and snacks more than we love going out. One day when we’re all vaccinated and thriving, I can’t wait to have all of our friends over for a big cookout. Here are a few items that can help me establish my position as the hostess with the mostest.

Things that compliment your hobbies

Finally, we added a few items we can use while we’re camping and hiking. Depending on what you and your honey like to do, just add gift ideas around those activities.

Asking for money in your wedding registry….

Asking for money is traditionally frowned upon. But… it’s 2022 and times are changing. While I wouldn’t recommend straight up asking for cash, there are a few more “acceptable” ways to go about it.(In my opinion, asking for straight up cash should be acceptable, but I’ve heard too much gossip from the older generations about people who have done it to recommend it to you.)

First is asking for gift cards. I added an Airbnb giftcard option on our registry because we love our weekend road trips, I also added Lowes because we live in a fixer upper and have been having a blast with renovations.

I’ve also seen people add the option to gift excursions for the honeymoon. Like a bottle of champagne which would prompt the gift giver to pay, say, $30 and that would go directly to you and your partner. Or a hot air balloon ride might be around $150. (I’m just spit balling.)

A little more murky is just adding straight cash options to your wedding registry that say like “house fund” or “honeymoon fund.” Personally, it’s not something we are going to do, but I’ve seen it. In fact, I kind of wish we felt more comfortable doing so because a “house project” fund would help us a lot! A lot of our guest list is 50+ and knowing some of them it wouldn’t go over well.

With that said, if it’s something you want to to do, you’ll have to really think about who you’re inviting and what their perceptions would be.Weddings are a little different than other gift giving occasions because they’re so formal, and a lot of people want to know where their gift is going.

If I’m forgetting any great gifts, please let me know in the comments! Or share the best wedding registry gift that you got!

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35 Practical Wedding Registry Ideas for Couples Who Live Together - Mostly Morgan (2024)

FAQs

What do you register for if you already live together? ›

"Couples who are living together tend to take their gift registry and focus it more on hobbies," says Lee. "If your hobby is cooking together, then you're gonna see things like the pasta maker, the bread maker, the cool waffle machine ... things that they like to do together in the kitchen.

What not to put on a wedding registry? ›

Beyond the major points I've covered here, you should also avoid asking for things like joke gifts, collectibles, unnecessary duplicates, or perishable items. Remember, the purpose of the gift registry is not to simply get great stuff for free.

Should older couples register for wedding? ›

Yes! Many older couples choose to have a registry, especially if they are getting married for the second time, because they may already have all of the traditional items typically given as wedding gifts.

What is a couples registry list? ›

A bridal registry or wedding registry is a service provided by a website or retail store that assists engaged couples in the communication of gift preferences to wedding guests. Selecting items from store stock, the couple lists desired items and files this list with the chosen merchant.

Should you do a wedding registry if you already live together? ›

Create Your “Together” Home

Your wedding registry is the perfect opportunity to upgrade old, worn, or not particularly special objects with items you two can pick out together—items that match your lifestyle, your interests, and your tastes as a couple.

What is proof of living together? ›

You can use things like: a marriage certificate or civil partnership certificate. a tenancy agreement, utility bills or council tax bills confirming that you live at the same address or pay bills together. a bank statement from a joint bank account, or confirming that you live at the same address.

What is too expensive to put on a wedding registry? ›

A few big ticket items are okay, since some guests might splurge on a gift or want to contribute to a group gift. If $50 to $200 feels high, don't fret. According to our Guest Study, in 2022, the average wedding gift spend was $160, so this range is right on par.

Is it rude to put expensive items on wedding registry? ›

Rule 5: It's Rude to Register for Expensive Items

While you should always maintain some perspective, you shouldn't think of anything as off-limits on your registry. Register for an assortment of gifts that target different price ranges, since we're guessing not all of your guests share the same gift budget.

How many items is too many on a wedding registry? ›

The rule of thumb is to include a little more than 2 gifts per number of guests invited.

Do couples still register for gifts? ›

There's no law demanding that engaged couples have a wedding registry, and many couples today are doing away with the tradition altogether. There are a few reasons for this: The couple is already living together: It's more common now to see couples move in together before they're married or engaged.

When a couple live apart but are still legally married? ›

Separated but Still Married

Even if the spouses are living apart, they are still considered married. This has important consequences: they aren't legally allowed to marry someone else. if one doesn't have a will, the other spouse automatically inherits from the one without a will.

What does marital status living together mean? ›

Although there is no legal definition of living together, it generally means to live together as a couple without being married. Couples who live together are sometimes called common-law partners. This is just another way of saying a couple are living together.

Can you be married and live separate lives? ›

The LAT lifestyle is about choice and can range from a few miles to thousands of miles physically separating a married couple. Long distance typically is a result of changing circ*mstance. Between 2000 and 2022 the percentage of married people living separately grew by more than 40%.

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